In the Key of G

          "Please try to look cute and happy", she said. "We need to take pictures to remember how much fun this was."         "Then take the picture." he said. "It'll be more accurate this way. Me working hard, you not so much." ...but, because he loves her.... he obliged.  This is us. Cuz we loooooove wedding planning.  but we're even more excited about not  doing wedding planning in the very near future. 

I like defining things. Not long after me and Vince started dating, I thought about the word “love” a lot and what it really meant. We had more or less agreed that saying “I love you” to each other was out of the picture until our relationship had grown into something far more committed. For me, it felt crucially important to put some kind of value or meaning back into the word "love". So my definition was: “ To love someone means you are devoted to them by choice, spurred on by tenderness, affection, and passion.”  It helped me put perspective on what truly loving Vince would look like. Well, I now am devoted to Vince by choice, and it was definitely spurred on by tenderness, affection, and passion. :) So that naturally brings us to a new word - marriage. For as long as I can remember, I’ve always heard it defined like this: “Marriage is an institute created by God…” and so on and so forth. Although this is absolutely true, that doesn’t really cut it for me. For some r...